Those of you, who know me personally, would admit that many a times I may be unpredictable. These days, my mood swings so much back and forth that even I don't know why this happens with me. But I accept that I become a little more emotional on most of the moments, especially those related with the persons about whom I care. These persons may be my friends (both close and far :-)), my colleagues, my family members or anyone with whom I can relate. But here I would like to toss a question to all of you guys that is being emotional is equivalent to being weak? I would seek the answer from you guys as it would help me to analyse myself.
Many a times I feel that my tears remain ever ready to just jump out of my eyes even at a mere touch. But I would say that these days such incidents are happening at a fast rate (or say more speedily than normal) which make my eyes moist. I would not like to go into details of each and every incidents here, but the latest one which not only made me weep but also shook me is 20/11. No guys, I am not mistaking the 26/11 incident, but I am talking about the Friday 2oth November which proved nightmares for many of my friends. This was no doubt the real Black Friday for (almost) all of us, which just stole the feeling of confidence, loyalty, commitment and trust out of our minds. That was a deep shock which hurt me so much that still I am recuperating from this. One of my dear friends had said once that if you want to overcome any pain, don't forget it or avoid it, but live with it so that it may have its natural death. I don't know how true it is or how effective it would be, but this time I would go with my friend's suggestion.
I know most of you must be thinking that what crap I have posted on my blog, which has been a forum of a sort of discussion on serious things so far. But guys, you all know that change is eternal as well as inevitable, don't you? So, this time I thought to express my anger, disappointment, frustration and weakness before you. There is also a feeling inside me that some of you would approach me with a probable solution of the problem which I discussed with you. Thanx in advance and awaiting your response.
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There is a difference in being sensitive and being emotional. I personally believe that it is a good idea to be sensitive because sensitivity ensures you are perceptive and therefore you are empathetic to people and situations.
On the other hand being emotional makes you susceptible to emotions taking over you and yes, on one hand where it can bring you immense happiness, it can also make you vulnerable.
Like I read somewhere, one should be like that nurse who takes care of someone's baby with utmost care but can hand the baby back to the mother without any attachment.
Difficult? Yes, it is.
Smriti, I agree that I am more emotional than sensitive, if I go by your definition, but I don't think that only this differentiation would relieve me. Moreover, I believe merely 'NURSING'would not help as how soft the touch of nurse on any baby, she can't have the same feeling for her own baby na. And, I would not nurse my emotions only to give back to its mother(but tell me is it possible?).
I told you its difficult, but it is possible. Try and keep yourself before anything and anyone else. Remember (only if you agree with this) one should be responsible for oneself and if everyone would do that, world would be a lot simpler, though less exciting.
Sid says, "Leave all expectations, and you shall be happy"
" Happiness is not the mere fulfillment of desires, rather, it is the performance of your duties."
"Do not confuse tears for emotions, as they are, more often than not, a mere reflection of a disturbed mind, rather than a troubled soul"
"Soul and Sole - Rub either a lot, and you shall have a hole"
"Take the middle path, judge not, nor be judged"
If you follow what Sid says, you shall attain happiness
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